What is Your Label?

so many times
in life I feel we limit ourselves by our
"labels"
for me it could be

middle child
military brat
hurdler/athlete
buyer
mother
homeschooler
wife
future empty nester
adult orphan
step monster
grand mother
blonde
athlete
on the wrong side of fourty
WTF is my label now?

Why do we let these labels define our identity?
rather than let the soul or your being in that moment
your relationship with the present
define who you are in that moment